Dating site experiences... good or bad please do tell

[laphanphon]

well it is in Western countries anyway

as mentioned many times, this is not the western world. i'm sure western world prostitutes, just guessing, are simply working and not looking for relationships, unless exclusive out call service catering to one worthy/affording their talents.

personally, if i was a cute younger gal, use your imagination, extreme imagination, and was going out for the weekend of fun, and some idiot wanted to finance my adventure, and even give me some pocket money for doing exactly what i had planned anyway, i don't think i would have a problem. if thinking and at the point of not partying and maybe being responsible, again, imagination is required, thinking of settling down, maybe one of these idiots might be a good find. better to fall in love with a rich person than a poor person. IMHO. sounds like a decent job and better prospect than the alternatives, but it's all relative.

had my share of adventures, though never got financed or able to advance to upper level income brackets do to female sponsoring in the states, though it would of been a nice option if available. so i can begrudge anyone for taking advantage of opportunities available them. as long as done with the proper intentions.

[seymourbutts]

No... However I would say young women like young men the world over... End of. I am sure if you did a survey and asked, "Would you like a cosy office job from 9-5 with a good salary in your home province or would you like to continue living here sitting outside this bar as road-bait with that ear-splitting music behind and the best thing that can happen you for the day is that you might be ridden and given 20 quid." I think I would venture what the reply might be.

i think most of them would prefer the bar than working for a livng!! I personally think its the easy way out to make money.. 99% of thai women who are struggling work hard for little money and sometimes dont see their offspring for months.. Sometimes holding down more than one job for peanuts basically, but a million percent better than flogging their ass. A good majority of the bar girls" in thailand are not actually thai!! a lot are agreed, but they represtent 0.02% of thai women who are traditionally shy and reserved and definatly not sexually orientated.

So how does a good thai girl get a farang?? i think its hard if they go looking for one by whatever means, tescos for instance , the farang there would tend to be married already... i think if they dont go looking but are receptive to the idea, who knows!! it worked for a lot of people on here, just by building up a rappor with a nice friendly girl.. Stan and LA are good examples of the right way to meet a thai girl...
I personally met my wife on an internet site, i met lots of them in bangkok and just weeded out the chaff, but after going through many meetings and dissapointments and meeting some some right little madams etc etc , i met pick and i just fell for her on the spot!! Weve not looked back since...and our baby (daniel) is due in october!!

Also and much more importantly i have never been happier than i am now .. And also that is why i like thai women!!! they make me happy!!

[Moothon]

Man, seymourbutts

I will agree there 100%. As I mentioned before, mine works in a bank, has a degree in Accounting, and earns only 9,800 baht a month, BEFORE taxes. And NO overtime paid, EVER.

Yes, she is one of the 17 Thai people in the whole country that actually DO pay tax......just kidding, but it's ALMOST that bad.....

Granted, she's only been there a year, but even the higher ups are on 13k to 20k a month.

I won't go into how those folks can afford to drive Merc Benz and live in a 6 mil baht home, but that's life in Thailand.

I asked her about meeting people, Thai and Expat, (possible dates) in stores and such. She said:

1. I can't speak enough English to have a conv.
2. I would never approach someone I don't know, thai or falang, and just start a conv., too shy and afraid.
3. I only go to stores to buy what I need.

So I asked, how would it ever be possible to meet anyone?

She said only if they met in the market in her villiage, AND THEY COULD SPEAK A LITTLE THAI, and asked her where to buy something or how much something costs and started a conv. with her because she would not start one first, be it thai or falang, and also, as I said before, she's related to most of the people in her moo ban, so knows everyone already.

Her village is about 12 kilometers out of Udon the road Y,s ...go right and it continues on, go left and it enters her villiage and about 300 meters inside is a evening market that hundreds go to each night (and PLENTY OF LOOKERS) to buy everything. Jeeeeeeeeez what a bunch of women.

[saint]

that was my point , as mr , butts and moothan confirmed , mostly thai girls are shy , part of thier charm i know , they dont shop at tescos , most dont drink as its frowned upon in the villages , but even if they did , they would never go to a bar , with friends or alone. most of thier villages are too far out of town anyway . so one of thier only chances of meeting a farang is on the internet . i dare say they have to weed through the chaff also , as i would imagine they meet some unsavoury sorts also . but if they didnt have this option , many would grow old lonely . it is thier only hope of true happiness in many cases . if not , it gives them hope at least .

[pompui]

so one of thier only chances of meeting a farang is on the internet . it is thier only hope of true happiness in many cases . if not , it gives them hope at least .

And they get the chance to get the handsome chaffs by posting a picture of themselves taken maybe 10 years ago before the leprosy had started to take effect.

[Thaitanium]

[goonersh]

OMG, ive only watched the first part so far.. that man is absolutly DISGUSTING in every way, he is a total sleezy perv.... "it took her three hours to fall in love with me" and "she does not have headaches even when she does" i mean WTF????? Surely he does not believe his own bullcarp?? I want to punch him

If that girl he is to marry really loves him i will wear a spurs shirt for the next decade

GREAT clips, sickening man... Louie as usual is brilliant... sharp and VERY sarcastic... you can just feel the utter contempt he has for this sleezy perv....onto part two

[goonersh]

Ok, i shoud have waited until the end to comment.. all i can say is WOW... what an absolutly BRILLIANT business idea and i now KNOW what i am going to do if i have to move to Thailand...

Maybe i have been all upside down on this and maybe i should be part of this wonderful introduction thing... i expect a barrage of critisism for changing my mind on this and, i STILL would not do what that poor lake did in a millon years... but i will gladly take his money.

If there really are guys willling to pay all that money to be introduced to girls... then i want part of it...

Ive been loking for a new venture since i gave up the business... and i have found it............

Aside from that That was the FUNNIEST thing i have wached for a very long time... absolute classic... and it makes me all the more happy to have met Kloi the way i did.. did you see the girls reaction when lake gave her the candle and said i love you.. all she said was "i understand"....

and as for the other dude........."seperated 8 days later" hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha

i AM going to start an agency.... 100% for sure

[panick]

it took her three hours to fall in love with me

And how long did it take Kloi as you were only here 1 month .... and now you're trying for a visa banking on the fact that if some land is changed into her name she can go to Oz ( No Hope! )

You've got a lot to learn Khun Ash and it comes from experiance ... not talking sh#t on a forum

You condemn Internet sites and prostitution yet you found your " Honey " in the "Entertainment" sector down in Samui

You say that she has'nt been home for 3yrs? .... Sorry mate but most Thais NEVER stay that long away from their family! ... even if its just a one year visit at Song Kran!

Were you ever chaporoned when you first met her .... did you have the blessings of her parents to be her boyfriend .... or was it yet another case of Hello Farang... You have good heart ... I come stay with you at Hotel ... I not want money, just man naam jai ..... then you done the dirty and met her parents after

You say that 1st she is singing close to her parents home ... then in the next breath you say she is working the farm? ... Well I may be wrong ... but this time of year you watch the rice grow and collect chicken/duck eggs to make ends meet BUT hey! ... maybe she's singing to the rice after reading some Western Cr#p about how plants react to talking/singing

Sorry mate I think you're on a downward spiral

BUT I hope I am wrong and that you find the happiness that you seek