mystery caller

[dougness]

Did some chastising and she tried to argue with me on the bus to her Mothers place.I just said that I don't want to spend two weeks at her familys place.Its nice and all,but I don't want to have people start haranging me for money,as I don't really have any,LOL.As far as losing money goes with my wife,20,000 is only the tip of the iceberg.Thats why I told her no to any new business ideas in Thailand.She said she borrowed it from her credit,well guess who pays that?Me.And she always says to me,"You always want something for what you give",well so far I haven't recieved much more than the odd chicken dinner and a smile .She is moving back to her hometown after I leave for good.I'm not afraid of the guy she pissed of,he works for certain large oil company here in Thailand ,and wouldn't dream of causing trouble,to me anyway.My wife made up with me,because I would not back down.I will not go back to her,if she decides to break up with me,ever.She won't because they all depend on me too much.I don't know what it is,but there is no end to the trouble Thais have with each other.The problem is that my money goes to thier lawyer bills.Its amazing how much they will try to rip each other off.And how cold is it for a Thai man to ignore his childrens welfare.I'm ranting now.Peace in the middle east before there is hassle free Thailand.

[dougness]

Mystery solved,my wife finally got a hold of the caller.She told the caller to tell her exfriend,she doesn't care about the debt,but is severing all ties with her.I sure wish I had a extra 20,000baht,LOL.

[SanukJoe]

Good to hear the mystery is solved Doug, one bad dream less!

Your previous post doesn't sound too good on your relationship, talking about leaving for good and all the money you spent on family lawyers bills....... I would have a second thought about the whole situation if I were you, remember you're not the family's ATM nor your wife's ATM.

Take care, be careful.

Cheers
Joe

[maaka]

glad things have sorted themselves out, and you know where your at..Maaka

[Texpat]

Why do nearly all Thai dramas with a farang involved end up costing the farang?

[dougness]

They do don't they.So many Thais don't want to own up and take care of thier problems.For example Thais who take advantage of thier Thai friends generosity,i.e lottery tickets.I told them don't take credit.If they can't pay,then you end up paying.If anyone needs a good translation company and lawyer,I know of one in Bangkok,just PM me.

[Parmoman]

Tracking mobile phones ? Easy Peasy , there is a cheap software called flexispy that runs on most phones, you simply buy her a new "present" with it preloaded, and you know her EXACT location to a few metres !


But the mere fact that you don't trust her implies that you MUST GET RID OF HER, she will make your life hell , if you have kids GOD HELP YOU !
Please buy some books about bad women and see if she has the characteristics (she will), "Love Entrepreneurs" is a good one about Thai ladies specifically, by Phil Nicks !

But to me YOU MUST LEAVE HER ! Be strong, you will find a good one, but maybe it is best if you must learn a lesson about bad women