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Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby LoveDaBlues » October 3, 2009, 8:09 pm

Glyn wrote:As far as I knew when marrying in Thailand the lady is forced to immediately change her name after the signing of marriage certs, so unless the guy was married outside of Thailand??

On top of this, I have been married for years, and we have bought/sold property, cars and bikes, my wife carries my name (as above) and obviously her ID states married, but I have never been called forward to verify the sale of any property, so I question the info within this thread, sorry guys!

As for bank accounts, I'm not sure, but I thought even 2 unmarried people could hold a joint account??? However I have accounts solely in my name and so does the misses, and neither of us are asked to verify withdrawals, but surely if they were joint (married or unmarried) we would then be asked for 2 signatures, so again is the name change relevant or is it just a case of having a joint account????

None of this original post actually makes sense to me. Sorry not trying to offend anybody, just want Joe Public to get accurate info.


A joint account simply means that 2 parties own the account jointly. Either party can withdraw funds without the knowledge of the other. However, accounts CAN be set up that require 2 signatures (or even more than 2).
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby LoveDaBlues » October 3, 2009, 8:17 pm

A Thai wife can only divorce if the husband gives consent; otherwise she must have grounds.

BTW; holders of the 30 year lease can sub-lease to a 3rd party and then the courts won't allow the
wife to cancel a lease (at least this is the opinion of many legal experts in Thailand)

Divorce (or attempted divorce) can drag on forever if one of the parties wants it to. Most Thai wives
in Issan can't sustain the money needed in a long divorce attempt.

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If your wife or husband will not agree to a divorce then you need to file with the courts for a divorce "for cause". In order to proceed with a divorce in this instance you will need to assert grounds for divorce and you must make a personal appearance in court. In Thailand grounds for divorce generally include:

* A 3 year period of separation
* One spouse has deserted the other for over one year
* The husband has taken another woman as his wife
* The wife has committed adultery
* One spouse is guilty of misconduct (criminal or otherwise)
* One spouse has been imprisoned for more than one year
* One spouse has physically or mentally harmed the other
* Lack of marital support
* One spouse has had incurable insanity for at least 3 years
* One spouse has broken the bond of good behavior
* One spouse has an incurable communicable disease
* One spouse has a physical disability so as to be unable to cohabitate as husband and wife.

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Also: When a couple divorce in Thailand all marital property (sin somros) is divided equally. personal property (sin suan tua) remains owned by the individual. So.....even if the Thai wife manages to get the court to grant the divorce the falang husband still gets half.......so all is not lost.
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby LoveDaBlues » October 3, 2009, 8:29 pm

Why does this thread suddenly make me think of:

Tammy Wynette......D-I-V-O-R-C-E......... :lol:
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby trubrit » October 4, 2009, 8:22 am

Glyn wrote:As far as I knew when marrying in Thailand the lady is forced to immediately change her name after the signing of marriage certs, so unless the guy was married outside of Thailand??



None of this original post actually makes sense to me. Sorry not trying to offend anybody, just want Joe Public to get accurate info.

So in the cause of accuracy.
The newly married woman is given the option to change her name to yours or retain her own family name, but her status is shown as Mrs whichever she chooses .This applies whether she has a Farang or Thai spouse . If inititally she opted for the spouses name, her family name can revert to her maiden one whenever she wants, be it a divorce or just seperation . Just a visit to the Registrar at ampur. This information has not only been confirmed to me by the Registrar but in the case of the original choice , it applies to my partner .
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby jetdoc » October 4, 2009, 10:52 am

When we married wife kept her maiden name, but she told me if we have a child (not in the plans -- but???) and the child is a male she will have to change her last name to mine. Can't verify but that is what she told me.
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby trubrit » October 4, 2009, 11:26 am

jetdoc wrote:When we married wife kept her maiden name, but she told me if we have a child (not in the plans -- but???) and the child is a male she will have to change her last name to mine. Can't verify but that is what she told me.

Just rang and asked the Registrar on this one .She doesn't have to change HER name but the offspring , regardless of gender, have to take the fathers .Like you ,don't think I will ever have to worry about this one . If my wife gets pregnant I will be more concerned about divorce . :lol:
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby davecryan » October 4, 2009, 9:39 pm

A joint Bank Account in Thailand, does not automatically require two signatures for withdrawal. That arrangment has to be specifically requested, at the time of setting up the Bank Account.
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby DRILLER » October 25, 2009, 11:23 am

the story below does not ring completely true.

the wife cannot transfer ownership of assets that are not in her name.

the husband would not honour her debts because theyre not in his name nor has she incurred the debt as a married person.

there must be more to the story than has been revealed, otherwise it cannot happen like that.

i suspect the husband was in on the loss too.

eko2248 wrote:What’s in a Name?

It is commonly believed that once a farange legally marries a Thai lady, thereafter his written approval will be required at any time she wishes to buy, sell, mortgage, transfer or otherwise dispose of or compromise family assets. Since a legal marriage gives each spouse a claim to half of all family assets, this injunction seems to be a reasonable safeguard for those farange husbands who have put all their Thai assets in their wives’ names. They have accepted that should the marriage subsequently fail, they will lose half their investment. But retain half.

But be warned. Things do not always work out as one expects.

Take the case of a Brit who had been married to a Thai lady for 12 years. During that time he invested 8.0 million in land & house, 3.7 million in 2 cars and 2 motorcycles (2 being 1500 plus cc type choppers and 2 being Honda mopeds) and over 5.0 million in 2 bank accounts. A total savings/investment of 16.7 million. Then during the next 4 years things changed. Later he learnt that she had started to gamble – unfortunately not successfully, and in doing so began to lose money. His/their money. First the cash simply disappeared. Then he learnt that the motorcycles had suddenly been used as collateral for a 2 million baht loan. Finally, he discovered that his house was to be repossessed, as she had taken out a 5.0 million baht loan against which she had made no installment payments for 13 months. Unpaid interest on that loan had been accumulated – first at 7.5% then at 15.0% so now stood at 766,000 baht.

So how was this possible when he had never been consulted and had never signed giving his approval to these borrowings?

The simple answer was because she had never changed her name when she married him. Thus she continued to hold her national ID card in her maiden name which showed that she was a single lady.

The Lenders – predominantly the Bank, believed that she was a single Thai lady and did not ask any further questions or require any additional paper work. In fact, they did not even ask how she intended to repay the debt or what her source of monthly income was. If it did come up in conversation she simply lied.

The money she borrowed she lost. So over 4 years she had reduced 16.7 million baht to 2.9 million. When he finally learnt the truth, her behavior had of course killed the marriage but worse was to come. He had to pay 2.0 million to clear the charges against the 4 motorcycles. He had to pay 6.8 million to reclaim his house. Then she asked the court that he pay her half of the remaining 2.9 million baht of net assets as her property settlement upon Termination of the Marriage. Clearly she needed some money to settle other gambling debts because her life was at risk.

Now what are the lessons to be learnt from this sad tale?

First, make sure your name appears as co-owner of every bank account that you create during the marriage AND that your signature is required for every withdrawal.

Second, check your spouse’s ID. If it is still in her maiden name or if it shows that she is a single person ask her why and if there are not very strong reasons why that should be the case, insist that she change it so that her status is that of a Married lady and her Family name at least includes your family name. This can be easily done by hyphenating the two family names. When a Thai girl marries, current rules gives the girl the right to choose if she wants to be shown as Miss or Mrs. And if she wants to continue to use her maiden name, there is no compulsion for her to change it. But unless she does change her Status or her Family Name, or both, Thai lenders have no reason why they should require the approval of a second person before giving her the requested loan.

Three, make sure you obtain and hold all title documents – chanotes, green books etc and then store them away where she can not get access to them. This is not foolproof as copies can be obtained, so still be wary.

What’s in a name? Huge risk if the name allows her to steal family assets which you paid for. Be warned and protect yourself. If unsure seek advice. The cost of doing so may result in major avoidance of loss in the future.
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Re: Whats in a Name....and how it can affect you!

Postby tinyterry » October 25, 2009, 1:58 pm

My TG was married to a Thai man and divorced several years ago and retained her married name and title Mrs.
A few weeks ago she decided that she wanted to revert to her single name and arranged for this to be done and is now a Miss. It would appear from this that they have a choice if they want to do this and when they do it. I have now seen her new ID card which proves this.
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